2/20/13

Natural Treatment for Depression!











Social connectedness is important 

The brain mistakenly interprets the pain of depression as an infection! Thinking that isolation is needed, it sends messages to the sufferer to "crawl into a hole and wait for it all to go away"! This can be disastrous because what depressed people really need is the opposite: more human contact!
Which is why social connectedness forms one-sixth of his "lifestyle based" cure for depression! The other five elements are meaningful activity (to prevent "ruminating" on negative thoughts),regular exercise,a diet rich in omega-3 fatty acids,daily exposure to sunlight,and good quality,restorative sleep!

Meds have only around a 50% success rate 

Moreover,of the people who do improve,half experience a relapse! This lowers the recovery rate to only 25%! To make matters worse,the side effects often include emotional numbing,sexual dysfunction and weight gain!

Results

 A research shows that every patient who put the full programme into practice got better!


The answer lies in our lifestyle 


Up to 20% of the UK population will have clinical depression at some point,twice as many as 30 years ago! Where has this depression epidemic come from?


Our standard of living is better now than ever before,but technological progress comes with a dark underbelly! Human beings were not designed for this poorly nourished,sedentary,indoor,sleep-deprived,socially isolated,frenzied pace of life! So,depression continues its relentless march!

Our environment may have evolved rapidly but our physical evolution hasn't kept up! Our genome hasn't moved on since 12,000 years ago,when everyone on the planet were hunter- gatherers! Biologically,we still have Stone Age bodies! And when Stone Age body meets modern environment,the health consequences can be disastrous!

Hunter- gatherer tribes still exist today in some parts of the world and their level of depression is almost zero! 

The reasons? They're too busy to sit around brooding! They get lots of physical activity and sunlight! Their diet is rich in omega-3,their level of social connection is extraordinary,and they regularly have as much as 10 hours of sleep! We need eight! At the moment we average 6.7!

We can adapt our modern lifestyle to match our genome by harnessing modern technology,such as fish oil supplements to increase our intake of omega-3! All well and good! 

But I can't escape the feeling that the six-step programme seems like common sense! Isn't it obvious that more sleep,exercise and social connectedness are good for you? Well,the devil is in the detail!

People need to know how much sunlight is most effective,and at which time of day! Taking supplements, for example,is a complex business! You need anti-oxidants to ensure that the fish oil is effective,as well as a multivitamin! Without someone spelling it out,most people would never do it!


It all makes sense,but will I try it myself? I don't suffer from depression,but wellbeing sounds nice! I'm not so sure about the fish oil,but I might just give it a go!

2/10/12

Just Let It Out!

Talking about relationships and shit is not my kinda thing! And people that know me know that very well! Also,talking about it is so last decade! So,Imma be straight and on to the point!

This century has brought a lot with it including various Social Networking Sites which provide you the ability to connect with people you already know as well as giving you the chance to get to know new people that you may find interesting and willing to waste your time developing a friendship with! Even if it means a friendship betweet two people living at the other side of the World each!

Sharing your views,thoughts and day to day experiences leads to giving out more information about yourself and your daily life to the people that may be interested in knowing you better!
Which consecutively may make some individuals attractive to the point where the "observer",let's call it, may start having some certaing kinda feelings about you! Which is ok!
Considering the amount of importance these Social Networking Sites have in our lives now,this seems like an everyday,not to say every second situation!
It's just the way we live now! We used to have letters! Then phones! And now,it's the Internet!

Now! As I mentioned earlier,there are these frequent cases where a person may develop some more-than-friendship type of feelings! To which my point of view is "Ok!"
Simply because,there's nothing more you can do! You can't prevent someone from feeling the way they do!
It's impossible! You just need to accept that and act accordingly! Whether that means embracing their affection towards you and appreciate their choise or just act like a New-Age jerk and break their heart...make fun of them...and generally hurt their feelings! It's up to you who you wanna be!

BUT what if you're at the side of the admirer? You know,the one that bares such feelings for a particular person? What do you do? Do you go out of your way to express your feelings and let them know what's going on in your heart or just shut your mouth and go with the flow?
Some people don't say or show anything out of fear! The fear of rejection! The fear that if the said person doesn't like what you shared with them will eventually get them apart! That they will get them outta their lives and they'll lose the friend they at least had till now!
Others just stay silent,waiting for the other person to do the "first move"!

Either way,things are not gonna get themselves forward if YOU don't act and do what you need to do! Which is letting people know what the truth is! Letting others know how you truely feel about them is neither a crime nor the worst thing to do! It just helps the relationship grow from friendship to something more (if you're one of those lucky ones) or it clears up the situation by getting a "NO" saving you time to collect the broken pieces of your heart,understanding the fact that "Things Don't Always Turn Out The Way You Want" and denoting the fact that "It's Time To Move On"!

No-one's gonna read your mind! No-one's gonna assume or guess what's really going on in your heart! Nobody is a psychic! So,don't excpect so to ever happen!
Not talking your thoughts out is not gonna get you anywhere but where you already are!
Refraining from the Reality (your feelings that is) will basically just create numerous question marks and tension in your life,affecting the rest of your relationships with the rest of the people in your life and increasing the risk of ruinning them as well!

It's true what they say "Follow Your Heart",cause no matter what,the heart always knows what's right! The heart is actually the best Psychic you'll ever encounter! Having an inside view to your real thoughts,it's bound to give you the wisest advice on what to do next!

So,Follow Your Heart and never let go! Give it your best and let the Future unfold itself with the seeds you've planted in the Past!

Best of Luck!

2/6/12

The Absolute Nothing!



If the Truth is the only Lie!


If what seems good is the best disguise!


Make me see what's really there!


Let me know that you really care!


Hope is what holds us together!


Bonds our lives,our thoughts,our souls together!


I say,you say...the World will never listen!


Pray to a God that I don't believe in!




If the Truth is the only Lie!


If what seems good is the best disguise!