2/26/12
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2/10/12
Just Let It Out!
Talking about relationships and shit is not my kinda thing! And people that know me know that very well! Also,talking about it is so last decade! So,Imma be straight and on to the point!
This century has brought a lot with it including various Social Networking Sites which provide you the ability to connect with people you already know as well as giving you the chance to get to know new people that you may find interesting and willing to waste your time developing a friendship with! Even if it means a friendship betweet two people living at the other side of the World each!
Sharing your views,thoughts and day to day experiences leads to giving out more information about yourself and your daily life to the people that may be interested in knowing you better!
Which consecutively may make some individuals attractive to the point where the "observer",let's call it, may start having some certaing kinda feelings about you! Which is ok!
Considering the amount of importance these Social Networking Sites have in our lives now,this seems like an everyday,not to say every second situation!
It's just the way we live now! We used to have letters! Then phones! And now,it's the Internet!
Now! As I mentioned earlier,there are these frequent cases where a person may develop some more-than-friendship type of feelings! To which my point of view is "Ok!"
Simply because,there's nothing more you can do! You can't prevent someone from feeling the way they do!
It's impossible! You just need to accept that and act accordingly! Whether that means embracing their affection towards you and appreciate their choise or just act like a New-Age jerk and break their heart...make fun of them...and generally hurt their feelings! It's up to you who you wanna be!
BUT what if you're at the side of the admirer? You know,the one that bares such feelings for a particular person? What do you do? Do you go out of your way to express your feelings and let them know what's going on in your heart or just shut your mouth and go with the flow?
Some people don't say or show anything out of fear! The fear of rejection! The fear that if the said person doesn't like what you shared with them will eventually get them apart! That they will get them outta their lives and they'll lose the friend they at least had till now!
Others just stay silent,waiting for the other person to do the "first move"!
Either way,things are not gonna get themselves forward if YOU don't act and do what you need to do! Which is letting people know what the truth is! Letting others know how you truely feel about them is neither a crime nor the worst thing to do! It just helps the relationship grow from friendship to something more (if you're one of those lucky ones) or it clears up the situation by getting a "NO" saving you time to collect the broken pieces of your heart,understanding the fact that "Things Don't Always Turn Out The Way You Want" and denoting the fact that "It's Time To Move On"!
No-one's gonna read your mind! No-one's gonna assume or guess what's really going on in your heart! Nobody is a psychic! So,don't excpect so to ever happen!
Not talking your thoughts out is not gonna get you anywhere but where you already are!
Refraining from the Reality (your feelings that is) will basically just create numerous question marks and tension in your life,affecting the rest of your relationships with the rest of the people in your life and increasing the risk of ruinning them as well!
It's true what they say "Follow Your Heart",cause no matter what,the heart always knows what's right! The heart is actually the best Psychic you'll ever encounter! Having an inside view to your real thoughts,it's bound to give you the wisest advice on what to do next!
So,Follow Your Heart and never let go! Give it your best and let the Future unfold itself with the seeds you've planted in the Past!
Best of Luck!
2/6/12
The Absolute Nothing!
If the Truth is the only Lie!
If what seems good is the best disguise!
Make me see what's really there!
Let me know that you really care!
Hope is what holds us together!
Bonds our lives,our thoughts,our souls together!
I say,you say...the World will never listen!
Pray to a God that I don't believe in!
If the Truth is the only Lie!
If what seems good is the best disguise!
2/1/12
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